Tight-Cut-4606

Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2f7ubf wrote

Reply to comment by Ok-Bass2557 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

Thanks for taking the time. As someone who is involved in this lifestyle you may be better aware to answer questions (I would really appreciate it).

I am 99% sure he has shared some pictures of me with thus friend in which the friend relieved himself over. He spoke about it descriptively in such detail I cant possible think it was fake. Knowing how long he has been into it, even if I tell him I'm not down to do it that's end of, do you think he will seek some other form of satisfaction of another or similar fettish elsewhere?

The other thing really bothering me, is how likely would it be he participates in these activities roles reversed. Him with someone else's wife? Or are these 2 fettishes completely seperate?

Thank you.

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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2f1wgu wrote

Reply to comment by Azerate2016 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

BecUse he kept telling me its just words and I wanted to see if it was. Whenever he would talk about it he would say I would never in reality which is the only reason I let it slide. When I found out he actually spoke to the guy for 2 years prior about it (probably a few times) is when I decided to let him go on to see if he is lying

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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2ex7hk wrote

Reply to comment by Azerate2016 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

It's not the fantasy I have an issue with. Its how far into reality he has bought it. MSsove issue. He may have shared my pictures with his friend. He has discussed with his friend about me having SXX with him, arranged a date for his friend to come... all I this time I work in thr office with this friend and I was clueless. This is no longer a fantasy.

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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2e5iup wrote

Reply to comment by Realistic-Airport775 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

He did have pictures and this has crossed my mind. He has said he deleted them but again I don't believe him. I wanted to see how far he would go because as much as he would say its just talk I wanted to see if he would do it for real and if he has discussed this with others. In my head it was a deal breaker, right now it's a deal breaker, not sure if it's because it just happened or because I am really done. I just feel devastated and dissapointed.

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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2e21ti wrote

Reply to comment by itsallminenow in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

Thanks for your comments. My concern is that I can't trust him to do things behind my back. The fact he's lied (so convincingly) that this was all just talk makes me think what else can he lie about. Especially if I don't fulfil this fantasy that he might do other fantasies behind my back.

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Tight-Cut-4606 OP t1_j2dcys1 wrote

Reply to comment by themanfromUNCLE100 in [40m] [35f] we are 2 people in a monogamous marraige. his fettish is killing the marraige. by Tight-Cut-4606

My problem is, even if he does "give up" the fantasy how can I trust him? The fact he discussed with his friend behind my back to sleep with me in detail makes me sick. The fact that his friend has "relieved himself" over me while I was working in the same office as thus friend and it all went on behind my back makes me sick.

I just want to know if there's even a chance to trust him after this.

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