Thank you

Thank you. It’s definitely not an easy situation to navigate and I have to protect the children.

Thank you for the advice, I fully agree with you. I want to do this with a mediator. Unfortunately, I cannot control my stbx. They seem to be hell bent on making this as hard as possible. Our children deserve better. I can only hope they come to their senses and realize that it doesn’t need to be this way. We are in no position to fund a divorce that costs tens of thousands! The focus should be on the children and making this transition as easy and comfortable for them as possible.

Does it truly matter who files first?

Thank you!

I love this and will definitely reach out, thank you!! I’m so glad everything worked out for you. Can I ask, were you a the primary care giver to the children?

Will do, thanks!

Interesting strategy!

Thanks!

Thank you, same to you!!

Thank you for sharing. My heart breaks for you, and for the falsely accused. I can’t imagine the impact that must have had on both of your lives… some people are pure evil.

Thank you

Definitely!

Thank you!

I would/could NEVER do that! Only a monster would do that! I’m sorry if something like that happened to you.

Thank you very much

My STBX has retained a “shark”. I didn’t want things to go this way. I need someone who is not easily intimidated, and also very good at what they do.

Thanks!

That’s what I am thinking too. It’s important that the attorney has a good, professional relationship within the court system.

Ha! Same

Thank you

Ooh, yeah,I didn’t sense that was a joke! I thought perhaps you’d lost in court and the opposing attorney was a badass!

Thanks!

Would you mind sharing the name? Feel free to send it privately if you are comfortable.

Hahaha! That seems like a lot more fun!!