Independent-Fig-4595
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaf0caz wrote
Reply to comment by barbie_farts_88 in anyone deal with a partner with PTSD? F34 M35 9 years together by barbie_farts_88
His experience would be very different from this commenters as his PTSD would not be complex. It has been generated from a one off event, not years of abuse or military service. It's a non-complex case.
If hubby refuses any medical care that makes things much more difficult and he could continue to suffer from this for many years to come, the longer you wait the worse it gets.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaf02vy wrote
PTSD from a one off event (clinically: non-complex PTSD) like this is very easily treated with EMDR therapy. It would likely not even be a terribly long process as, again, this is from a one off event.
If your husband suffers with multiple mental health disorders and seeks no treatment for any of them that is a bigger issue.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaeys53 wrote
Reply to I (F26) received an anonymous letter in the post saying my partner (M29) has been cheating on me. What would you do? by [deleted]
Was any proof offered? Do you have any way of verifying this?
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaeyo3y wrote
Reply to I can't keep up with my partner financially and it's extremely stressful. Advice needed. (M28, F26) by Oatmealtuesdays
Communicate with him. Tell him your actual income and left over amount you have for disposable income after all your expenses are paid. Stop turning down his offers. He wants to spend time with you and share experiences for you, you declining is silly, he has the money and he wants to spend it on/with you. You're being overly proud and hurting yourself, your relationship and your partner as a result.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaey3mc wrote
Reply to (24M) and (21F) in love with each other, but she has a boyfriend who she loves too by [deleted]
You should block her everywhere and stop talking to her completely. She is having an affair, do you understand that? She is cheating on her boyfriend with you. It doesn't need to be physical for it to be cheating.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaewk84 wrote
Reply to A friend(26M) of mine just blocked me(24F) with no reason, last four months we’ve been talking every day... what should I do why did he do that by ThrowRA77caaan
Does he have a girlfriend?
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_j6l0br9 wrote
YTA. Break up, she can do better.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_iyf8eqd wrote
I believe cheaters can change but I don't think they can change for a partner who stays with them after cheating. And even if they did the trust will never be full and whole anyway. You did the right thing. Hopefully they betters themselves as a consequence of your correct decision to leave them.
I'm sorry this happened to you, it might take a while to get over and have an impact in your future relationships and ability to trust. Keep an eye on that and if you are struggling with trust even when there is no reason to reach out to a therapist for help.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_iyc9bzu wrote
Reply to My(18F) boyfriend(18M) refused to fuck me by [deleted]
This is rape. Reported.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_iyblvb0 wrote
You can't stop an addict from getting their fix. Only they can.
Independent-Fig-4595 t1_jaf0h6j wrote
Reply to comment by ThrowRA77caaan in A friend(26M) of mine just blocked me(24F) with no reason, last four months we’ve been talking every day... what should I do why did he do that by ThrowRA77caaan
Then it's weird and very rude that he would ghost someone who is supposed to be his friend. Do you really want someone that treats you so poorly in your life?