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Eve-3 t1_jdzut6y wrote

That it's physically attached to the bottle even after it is untwisted/opened. A lot of people here complaining that it gets in the way when trying to drink so hopefully they'll try something else.

I have no idea what's sold in the Netherlands, I don't drink pre-bottled drinks.

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Eve-3 t1_jct38cc wrote

The form most people use for running/jogging is usually terrible for the knees. Much better than messing up your brain, but not ideal.

I'd guess watersports as the least problematic. I don't recall hearing anything bad about swimming. (Looking forward to the comments saying why I'm wrong so I can learn something new)

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Eve-3 t1_jcqiloe wrote

Now you're just being ridiculous. You know when the punch gets to a dangerous level the brain shuts down to protect itself. That's why the boxer loses consciousness, so his brain isn't actually hurt. It's basic science.

Just in case someone thinks I'm that dumb..../s

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Eve-3 t1_j6frv5g wrote

Reply to comment by Halenat in You need to apologize by Halenat

It still boils down to whether you want to forgive them or not. If my husband does something thoughtless I appreciate an apology because it shows he's thinking of me. But if he doesn't apologize, oh well. I don't expect him to review every moment of his interactions with me to discover a slight and come confess his remorse. He's human, he'll do thoughtless things from time to time. Because I love him I forgive him whether he apologizes or not.

Were he to cheat on me, that's unforgivable. It really doesn't matter how much he apologizes, we're still getting a divorce.

An action between those two, something that hurt me enough I still love him but I'm not ready to forgive (can't think what, I'm pretty easy-going) that would require an apology plus some sort of action to convince me I should indeed forgive.

The only need for anything beyond acknowledgement of the error is because the wronged party doesn't want to forgive you yet. If you regularly require more than words from those around you then you may want to look at why you feel the need to hold on to slights so firmly. Either that or you have surrounded yourself with people you know aren't worthy of you to begin with and maybe you should stop saying you forgive them because you aren't actually forgiving them.

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Eve-3 t1_j6foydk wrote

Reply to comment by Halenat in You need to apologize by Halenat

Only with people you don't want to forgive. If you want to forgive them then saying "I'm sorry" is more than enough.

When my neighbor wakes me up to construction noises at 7 on a Saturday I forgive him because I like him. When the asshole that lives across the street does the same thing he's not forgiven with just an apology because I don't believe he's sincere because I don't like him and don't want to have to forgive him. (Ok I actually forget about it after 5 minutes without any sort of apology from either, it's an example).

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