He's cheating and projecting.

Anyways, cheating is the least of your problems. Him threatening you is a huge alarm and cause to leave.

Sexual jokes are weird depending on contacts.

But for most siblings they don't actually view their siblings in a sexual way regardless of what they're wearing so yes being paranoid about her clothes says more about your insecurities than it does about their relationship.

If it bothers you so much reconsider the relationship.

Normal siblings don't think anything of their siblings body or in the same sphere as a sexual partner.

Your sexualizing a relationship between siblings.

Sharing food and kissing are two very different activities and neither are actually connected especially not between siblings.

I think you need to establish what you both want out of this relationship. Sounds like he may only be interested in sex and thought that's what you wanted too so now he feels the rug has been pulled from under him.

But at no point due you owe him sex or your body.

Your jealous of him sharing food with his sister, something that's pretty normal amongst family members. Your making a none issue a thing because of your own messed up views.

I think her ignoring it speaks volumes about how she feels on the topic.

If you bump into her maybe try saying hi but don't bring it up further.

Hey that's great! coding is a great way to keep yourself occupied! Good luck!

Ya my bad for say she mean - I meant you mean.

As in, hopefully you've broken up with her now and she's now your ex.

And she mean ex girlfriend surely?

Grab what you can. Grab the important stuff.

Change your number, change your email, change your social media.

He won't change.

For sure keep it up man!

I know it hurts, its hard not to obsess. Hey, even even when at home try a new hobby or class. Plenty of online classes you can take. Helps keep your mind occupied

I don't think you should forget it tho, learn and grow from this.

It's going to hurt for sometime It's true.

One, block her from everything.

And keep yourself busy, go out with friends, see family. Pick up a new hobby, learn a new language just don't stay idle.

Well she's obviously going to make you out to be the bad guy. It's easier than to admit she messed up.

Ya some things are just unforgivable

And her reasoning for inviting her back into your lives?

The easiest way is to just straight up ask.

We can all speculate till we're blue in the face but she's the only one who can actually tell you for sure how she feels.

So her "best friend" made this account and she what forgave or brushed it off? How does she accept this behavior?

I mean their continued relationship says a lot about how she feels about you but you could if you want to try tell her.

"Best friend" has done abc for x time, I'm no longer comfortable with her in our lives and what she is trying to do to us, for us a couple to continue i need xyz from you.

Before discussing this is her, speak to a lawyer and get your ducks in a row regarding your child

An affair? Is he married? Are you married?

Some people just want casual sex, regardless of how great the connection is.

Do you want to just be FWB with him?

Maybe, it's an age thing but isn't the point of social media to add and interact with people you know? I haven't used it in years but used to add coworkers all the time on it and still get asked for it from time to time. That's my take on it but of course it also depends on when she found it he was interested...

If he doesn't want a relationship with you than stop responding. Give yourself time to heal and move on from him. It'll hurt for sure but so is does staying in contact with someone who doesn't want the same.

Having your privileges and good fortune cannot fix a chemical imbalance. It also can't erase the very horrible start to your life. Keep going to therapy, keep excerise, look into medical help. Sadly, none of this will help over night it could take a very long time to get to a better place.

Well you're a better friend then he is.

His situation is horrible but that doesn't mean he gets a free pass to sexually harass you.

I'm a mother myself, the unconditional love and sacrifices is part of the job, it's the bare minimum of what a good parent does. You can be grateful and appreciative without forfeiting yourself. Clearly, there are some conditions to their love though.

What's her sentiment behind it?