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some-key t1_j9zmxx7 wrote

Absolutely, what you decide to act on is what defines you. It's not uncommon to internalize the logic that was used to attack you or that stands against what you are. I think it's a kind of defense mechanism, and once you are self aware enough to notice it you no longer need it. Then you can work to let it go by not engaging and consciously breaking the pattern of those thoughts.

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some-key t1_j9v8ttx wrote

That's the automatic thoughts, internalized beliefs. Some come from beliefs that you consciously hold and others from what you have taken in from your environment and culture.

It's really interesting to identify these, you learn a lot about yourself.

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some-key t1_j6cclow wrote

I'm allergic, and it's cumulative. The more bites I have, the worse the swellings. And to make it worse, in a group of people, I'll always get the most bites 😖

I've found nothing that makes it totally go away, but using heat as soon as I notice the bite helps a lot.

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some-key t1_j6cbvlr wrote

I was using a hot spoon for a long time and last summer discovered that there are insect bite relief pens.

They're small pen shaped things that you can easily fit in your purse. They have a metal pad that heats up when activated.

What's good about them is that they don't stay hot longer than needed so there's no risk of burns. Plus, they're more portable and get less attention than a spoon with a lighter 😅

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