This isn't really the case, if I'm being honest; just more Freudian logic. If someone has a bad relationship with their father, it doesn't mean they think of all men that way. They might have a fear or waryness of men based on past experiences, or will avoid men who seem like they're up to no good. But someone's experience with men isn't entirely shaped by their father; it's shaped by all the men they've met and interacted with.

LPT2: get more than 1 fitted sheet

i have several that i swap out each time one needs to be cleaned, so i have a system going where i just wash one, throw a new one on, wait for the other one to get clean, then just put it away and repeat when necessary