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shy-bae t1_j1zfoa5 wrote
Reply to comment by derek_morin1 in Woman Who Gave Birth In Manchester Homeless Camp Faces Reckless Conduct Charge by xforce4life
Yes if you have a one year old, you have plenty of time to have figured something else out or someone else to notice and gotten help.
She had just given birth outside on one of our coldest days of the season while having mental health issues and being an addict. Its hard for people in even the best health/conditions to think properly after birth while in a warm hospital on pain meds and looked after by doctors.
shy-bae t1_j1w14vo wrote
Reply to comment by Wide_Television_7074 in Woman Who Gave Birth In Manchester Homeless Camp Faces Reckless Conduct Charge by xforce4life
I’m just pro-woman and have basic empathy, because she was here first and she probably couldn’t even consent to being pregnant. It’s just wild to me that you can be walking around as a homeless addict and no one cares, then one day you wind up pregnant (maybe from sexual assault as is common in these settlements) and your body does its thing without you getting a say, your body gives birth in horrible circumstances and you’re just trying to survive, then all of a sudden you’re charged as a felon by the same people who were fine with you freezing to death when it was just you.
shy-bae t1_j1t65vt wrote
Reply to comment by Mangoinmysushi in Woman Who Gave Birth In Manchester Homeless Camp Faces Reckless Conduct Charge by xforce4life
Like you said, she is a drug addict and addicts don’t always make reasonable or sane choices which is part of why they need help.
shy-bae t1_j1szebj wrote
Reply to comment by SnooPeripherals5969 in Woman Who Gave Birth In Manchester Homeless Camp Faces Reckless Conduct Charge by xforce4life
Yeah the misogyny in these comments is unsettling but not surprising. Homeless people freeze/starve/overdose all the time and no one cares, but all of a sudden an iNnoCeNt bAbY is involved and everyone is all shocked pikachu face that a young homeless addict in need of immediate post-partum/medical/rehab care maybe didn't make the best decision with regards to its well-being. She probably knew she'd get into legal trouble and get it taken away, which is why she tried to prevent them from finding it.
I just feel terrible that she had to literally give birth outside in the cold but "pro-lifers" can't see the connection between taking care of homeless adults and taking care of any potential children. And now they want to charge her as a felon for endangerment when they didn't care whether she lived or died before. Another example why access to contraception and abortion is healthcare.
shy-bae t1_j0c6p17 wrote
I have the same question as a nearly lifelong resident lol. It’s not so much that the houses are dated and depressing meth pits. It’s that they also cost $400K plus for the most nightmare inducing interiors you’ve seen in your life.
shy-bae t1_iylq9mc wrote
Reply to comment by ZeBrownRanger in Airport and relocation questions by ZeBrownRanger
There's also a Boston Express bus stop in Tyngsboro, MA (5-10min south of Nashua). It's the last stop before heading to Logan so it's the shortest bus ride time out of NH.
shy-bae t1_iyclql6 wrote
Reply to comment by Hextall2727 in Coming to visit before potentially moving by chosen566
I rent in Dover and it's definitely not up and coming anymore, it's full on gentrified. I'd say Somersworth/Rochester are up and coming and a wise place to buy a house in right now, but I just can't do it, man.
shy-bae t1_iw72009 wrote
Reply to comment by petergriffin999 in Farmington child hospitalized for RSV in Maine after family cannot find NH beds by every1getslaid
Yeah, my triple vaxxed spouse picked it up at work and got sick. Then four days later, I (unvaxxed) caught it (I didn’t go out in that time frame so I couldn’t have caught it from anyone else).
We were both sick the same amount of time with the same symptoms lol.
shy-bae t1_iw715w2 wrote
Reply to comment by SheeEttin in Farmington child hospitalized for RSV in Maine after family cannot find NH beds by every1getslaid
You’re just as likely to be a “plague carrier” as someone who is unvaccinated.
shy-bae t1_jd3ycln wrote
Reply to French towns in the Northeast? by wojtekthesoldierbear
This is so dog whistley lol