Ask them to clarify their feelings about an LDR. He'll, ask yourself what you think of a long distance relationship. Four months isn't long to date but they have to know that not everyone would wait or do LDR for a third of your entire relationship. They might be in the "cross that bridge when we get to it" mindset, and it just didn't occur to them what comes next for you guys.
It's probably not a bad time to bring up future plans in general. Kids, marriage, travel in general, yadda yadda.
matcha-hatcha t1_j6o0ymr wrote
Reply to My (30F) partner (32M) didn't discuss long travel plans with me by [deleted]
Ask them to clarify their feelings about an LDR. He'll, ask yourself what you think of a long distance relationship. Four months isn't long to date but they have to know that not everyone would wait or do LDR for a third of your entire relationship. They might be in the "cross that bridge when we get to it" mindset, and it just didn't occur to them what comes next for you guys.
It's probably not a bad time to bring up future plans in general. Kids, marriage, travel in general, yadda yadda.