jay-the-ghost

jay-the-ghost t1_je5m8ty wrote

Thank you for this. I can keep working with my budget somehow, I just couldn't think of any other ways to do that. If I can find ways to decrease my medical bills that would be great.

They are "unexpected" because I plan for some procedures, and then I assume I'm done with office visits for a while, and then something comes up out of nowhere. It's been happening more often lately so my budget for medical expenses hasn't been enough to cover the "surprises".

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jay-the-ghost t1_je4ycfy wrote

It's not just an emotional state, it's my quality of life. I'm all alone out here and they're my only companionship. I have bad depression and PTSD (already in therapy) and I would get worse if I "failed" in my life and had to lose them. I lost them once and was blessed enough to get them back after a year.

I'm already cutting back where I can. I'm trying to see if anyone else has any ideas I haven't thought of. Ways to make my money go farther, etc. Ways to get support for medical bills or something. I'm looking to move somewhere cheaper, or somewhere that my profession pays more in relation to the cost of living, but I don't know what my other options are, if anything.

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