forget-me-not-37

forget-me-not-37 t1_jaew9mn wrote

Reply to I can't keep up with my partner financially and it's extremely stressful. Advice needed. (M28, F26) by Oatmealtuesdays

You are a team and sometimes not everything is going to be clearly 50/50. What I do personally is calculate the difference in salary between my partner and I. I make 70% more so I’m paying 70% of the expenses.

What if your BF gets fired would you still force him to split everything or would you cover for him? Splitting everything doesn’t really make sense sometimes.

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forget-me-not-37 t1_jaevshg wrote

Reply to (24M) and (21F) in love with each other, but she has a boyfriend who she loves too by [deleted]

I personally wouldn’t trust someone who is emotionally cheating on their current partner to be a good future partner to me.

You shouldn’t do anything. It’s really up to her. The only way for things to proceed with the two of you is for her to break her current relationship or cheat. You could encourage her to break up or cheat. But morally I would say it’s not a good decision.

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forget-me-not-37 t1_j6p4zkc wrote

Reply to My (f24) husband (m25) sent nudes to someone else. by [deleted]

I don’t think he fell for a scam. Often the scams will say they will send out the nudes unless you send money. They typically never do send out the nudes since it is a crime in a lot of places.

It is likely that he cheated and the mistress sent this out to expose him. And now he’s been caught is is desperately trying to change the narrative to something that would benefit him more.

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