Totally unacceptable as he is married. The males should have still slept in the same room. Not sure if you have a husband but mentioned the word. If you have a husband too, it is also twice as inappropriate for you to share a solo room with him.

Even if nothing happened, this kind of actions put cracks in a relationship and can potentially damaged even healthy ones.

You're 32. Age gaps mostly matter if the younger one is in a vulnerable position. I'd say you're mature enough to make your life choices.

Ehh. I don't have children but I'd say "don't stay for the kids".

They'd be miserable if you're miserable anyway so might as well seek haooiness elsewhere.

Now, marriage always deserve a second chance so counselling is good. But be prepared to accept things as they are if he's not gonna put efforts into cooperating.

You both work over 100+ hrs a week and still can't afford housekeeping? Sounds like you guys aren't compensated very well.

How about hiring housekeeping for just sundays or saturdays? At least save the deep cleaning of bathrooms and stuff for this whole day.

Not sure if you have kids. If you don't, instead of frequent grocery trips how about ordering planned meals like hello fresh? With inflation now adays it's surprising how not much pricier these kinds of meals are compared to normal groceries. Will also probably cut your dishes by half as many of the products come prepped and ready to cook.

I don't see why you shouldn't rekindle your romance with him.

You're already 26, pretty mature as an adult so bwing in a relationship with someone 12 yrs older isn't as big of a deal as when you are younger. You are no vulnerable teen anymore.

If he suddenly kept distance, someone might have confronted him about your age gap too and he might have chosen to keep a respectful distance.

I say go for it. Have a heart to heart talk.

Man I was pretty shitty when I was an inexperienced 18 yr old too. Good thing I matured as I got older. Kinda.

Too much unnecessary drama though. Wouldn't you be happier without all this?

Drop him. He isn't suitable for a long term partner.

You'll be experiencing a lot more life changing things the longer you live and he made it clear he's gonna abandon you once you fall under his "standards".

4 months isn't really that long of a time to be together. She probably just want to play around some more.

A friend of mine is more comfortable chatting than talking. I am the oppossite as I feel more comfortable talking than chatting.

Although I am not sure what you guys need but LDR's really require more patience and effort than usual and you wikl both have to cooperate to get it right.

Eh, too controlling imo. If you want to cheat you can easily cheat without him knowing.

How you look at exBF1 might be colored by nostalgia glasses, careful.

If you're gonna leave your current one, do it for yourself, not for your ex.

Imo do have a talk though and don't just disappear. It's always important to communicate just in case