Honestly it’s such a disgusting misogynist thing I would 1000% break up with him. But I assume you want advice other than just breaking up.

Tell him you’ll never marry him or move in with him if that’s his intention.

And you 1000% need to live with him before you marry him to see what living with him is like. Don’t assume he will behave ANY differently once you’re married. You marry exactly the person you marry, don’t expect them to change.

I agree, ghost or tell him he crossed your explicit boundaries and should feel bad about himself and then block.

What do you want advice about?

He says he spends a lot? On what? He needs to budget.

Alright the first half, you clearly need to talk to him. The second half, he’s a bum. You’re taking care of a bum. No wonder he’s lazy in bed, he’s lazy throughout. He isn’t contributing to rent? Does he makes pennies compared to you?

But where is the extra $1000 coming from? Are you not going to give up your place? Presumably you’re paying at least $500 for your current place

Why would you be paying extra? Won’t you two be paying for one place instead of 2?