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a-german-muffin t1_je9rygw wrote

> Why is our story so common, it’s really not hard being a half decent parent.

It's harder than it looks. Plus, there's a shitload of generational trauma rippling through, especially if your parents were born close to postwar (say up until about the early '60s). Hell, my dad literally told my mom that she was going to have to handle the kids because he "had no idea how to be a parent."

Best we can do is try to avoid the same mistakes with the next generation and give our parents what grace we can for their transgressions.

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a-german-muffin t1_je6lkn7 wrote

Reply to comment by xphizio in Standard by DanDstuff

What the fuck is flawed about "this guy is a fucking asshole and making shit needlessly dangerous by parking on the sidewalk"? Because that's the larger point, not whatever the you're trying to shoehorn in here.

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a-german-muffin t1_je6julq wrote

Reply to comment by xphizio in Standard by DanDstuff

Ignoring that you're missing the larger point, 23rd is a one-way southbound — you could step into an empty street going south to get around this jagoff and have someone turn off Cuthbert and hit you from behind without you ever seeing them.

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a-german-muffin t1_je6hb2a wrote

Reply to comment by xphizio in Standard by DanDstuff

This thing is the width of the sidewalk, and construction on the other side of 23rd has closed a full lane and the sidewalk on the other side. Literally the only way around this motherfucker is going in the street.

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a-german-muffin t1_je5o0iw wrote

Might be too cynical a way of looking at it — there's a sizable gulf between being a handpicked successor and being someone with practical experience working in a council office. And as far as I've seen, Clarke hasn't said word one about Young in this process — not in the Inky article, not on social, not anywhere.

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a-german-muffin t1_je5kkth wrote

Given Poplar Drive only got stop signs in 2017, a light's not super likely. We have heard that it's possible the intersection can get at least partially redesigned, most likely to narrow the crossings, and there might be some short-term solutions (e.g., temporary flex posts) to at least partially accomplish that ahead of a full redesign.

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a-german-muffin t1_je11w2l wrote

> vacant land clear and clean, vacant housing kept up to standards(with a cost associated)

The city seriously needs to hike the shit out of the costs to leave property vacant. It's a measly $185 right now, and there aren't nearly enough L&I folks to process the inevitable violations stemming from owners letting those properties rot.

I'd love to see a sliding scale that's something like $1,000 minimum for the first year and escalates from there (potentially higher if you have multiple vacants) — these assholes will stop squatting on houses if you make it hurt.

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a-german-muffin t1_je10blr wrote

Right year, wrong Roman numeral — it was the DSM-V revision (got that one mixed up).

As for Asperger himself being a Nazi collaborator, it's well established.

> Sheffer lays out the evidence, from sources such as medical records and referral letters, showing that Asperger was complicit in this Nazi killing machine. He protected children he deemed intelligent. But he also referred several children to Vienna’s Am Spiegelgrund clinic, which he undoubtedly knew was a centre of ‘child euthanasia’, part of what was later called Aktion T4.

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a-german-muffin t1_je0ih9m wrote

> or kids with Asperger's

Not for nothing, but Asperger's hasn't been a diagnosis for a decade (not least because Herr Asperger was a Nazi collaborator who referred disabled kids to a clinic where they were probably murdered). It's folded into the somewhat broader autism spectrum disorder (ASD)-1 as of DSM V*.

*whoops wrong revision

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a-german-muffin t1_je0bkzp wrote

Believe me, I hear you — and maybe the Conservancy can help with getting planters or something similar, but keep expectations low otherwise. That intersection wasn't so much engineered as it just... evolved out of a late 1800s mess.

As for the Poplar/Poplar group, it's mostly a bunch of folks who live over by the park trying to nudge Streets and Parks & Rec, with mild success (Poplar Street's getting repaved this year, so some light fixes are in the works). DM me if you want to pop into the (mostly email) works, though!

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a-german-muffin t1_je06qqq wrote

I'm in a group trying to work on some changes to the Poplar Drive/Poplar Street intersection, and I can tell you this: You're probably out of luck right out of the gate. The Poplar/Poplar intersection is complicated because it's a park road and a regular city street, so changes to that one aren't easy (mixed budgets, etc.) — but the one thing we've learned for sure is Parks & Rec is tapped out as far as budgeting for any park roads.

It's not to say it's not worth it to try to get something moving on that front, but you're going to need to gather a fair amount of interest (petitions, potentially other steps). Constantly calling the cops on the crosswalk parkers might move the needle, too (or at least annoy the 9th enough that they lean on council/P&R to do something further).

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