I know it sounds weird, and hard to believe - but listen to a few dozen dateline cases. Maybe 10% of them have the husband arrested and on trial before they actually find who did it. This person above isn’t wrong. You HAVE to talk to a lawyer as early on as possible. Absolutely have to.

Edit: eh I’ll lower the percentage, not sure it’s as high as the original

Idk why you’re getting downvoted. You are ONE HUNDRED PERCENT correct.