Waiting-For-October

Waiting-For-October OP t1_je6tz05 wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: When someone is mean to you, it’s 100% about them and their ego, and 0% about you. They are just miserable with their own life and want you to feel bad about yourself as well. Just kill them with kindness and remember that you are better off and not a miserable person like them. by Waiting-For-October

Yea I could probably edit it to remind people what “mean” actually is, but at this point it’s pointless since I realize posting in this sub attracts too many abusive psychos so I’m just gonna forget about it.Thanks for the input though.

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Waiting-For-October OP t1_je6rxsf wrote

Reply to comment by Preposterous_punk in LPT: When someone is mean to you, it’s 100% about them and their ego, and 0% about you. They are just miserable with their own life and want you to feel bad about yourself as well. Just kill them with kindness and remember that you are better off and not a miserable person like them. by Waiting-For-October

That isn’t what I meant though. Those examples aren’t mean though. I mean like back handed compliments, passive aggressiveness etc

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Waiting-For-October OP t1_je6ihlv wrote

Reply to comment by [deleted] in LPT: When someone is mean to you, it’s 100% about them and their ego, and 0% about you. They are just miserable with their own life and want you to feel bad about yourself as well. Just kill them with kindness and remember that you are better off and not a miserable person like them. by Waiting-For-October

Maybe you have never experienced this. Maybe you are actually the person who is mean to others. A customer at your work who has a nasty attitude or a clerk at a store with a sarcastic manner to you when you ask a question, maybe when this happens to you, it is called for. Maybe you are the one who is mean for no reason. Maybe you are actually a Karen and don’t realize it?

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Waiting-For-October OP t1_je6gben wrote

Reply to comment by ChrisGeritol in LPT: When someone is mean to you, it’s 100% about them and their ego, and 0% about you. They are just miserable with their own life and want you to feel bad about yourself as well. Just kill them with kindness and remember that you are better off and not a miserable person like them. by Waiting-For-October

And only a miserable person would flip off a stranger. The honk may be necessary (although from your tone, I assume you honk when it isn’t necessarily needed)

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Waiting-For-October OP t1_je6g0od wrote

Reply to comment by RaveSupreme in LPT: When someone is mean to you, it’s 100% about them and their ego, and 0% about you. They are just miserable with their own life and want you to feel bad about yourself as well. Just kill them with kindness and remember that you are better off and not a miserable person like them. by Waiting-For-October

That isn’t mean (well your comment is lol) when your boss scolds you for being late for the 18th time that isn’t mean. When your co-worker makes a nasty comment about your hair, that is mean.

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