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Use-Useful t1_jcwtn8y wrote
Reply to comment by annonymark in [Image] Stress can be a motivator… by dreamingonastar1
There is a fair bit of research to say that how you view stress determines its effect on you - to the point . I 100% agree stress is very bad for people, but changing your attitude on it might make a big difference in how it effects you.
Use-Useful t1_jbf707n wrote
Reply to comment by exemplariasuntomni in [Image] Either Way by strippy
I heard that. O.o
Use-Useful t1_jbf6ycp wrote
Reply to comment by Embarrassed_Work4065 in [Image] Either Way by strippy
Sounds like a skill issue.
Use-Useful t1_jcyii69 wrote
Reply to comment by Alwaysunder_thegun in [Image] Stress can be a motivator… by dreamingonastar1
That's fair. The research I am familiar with is about day traders who have a notoriously short life span due to cardiac problems from more or less constant gambling of huge sums of money.
Edit: I'm actually not convinced that their case is so dissimilar to your examples ... some people may view "I'm broke so I cant pay rent" as a moment of doom, and other may view it as a problem they need to figure out, a challenge to be met? I'm not sure, but it seems to me that the reality is irrelevant to the attitude involved, and that seems like it lines up with the research? I dont know, I am not saying this isnt toxic optimism in some ways, but the research I am familiar with still seems to apply.