Upset-Rooster-1655 OP t1_jeah7g7 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:27 PM

Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in How do I (33M) make my partner (33F) stop feeling like my mum? by Upset-Rooster-1655

Thank you. I suppose I needed this reality check.

Upset-Rooster-1655 OP t1_jeaf5n8 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:14 PM

Reply to comment by UsuallyWrite2 in How do I (33M) make my partner (33F) stop feeling like my mum? by Upset-Rooster-1655

Thank you for this, you are right. I have been doing therapy, and have stopped my meds lately.

I do fear about those things you wrote.

Thanks.

Upset-Rooster-1655 OP t1_jeaej81 wrote on March 30, 2023 at 4:10 PM

Reply to comment by asghettimonster in How do I (33M) make my partner (33F) stop feeling like my mum? by Upset-Rooster-1655

Thank you, we have not tried a chores list as yet, we have tried splitting workload and pro active owning it. Maybe writing it all down and maintaining it will work. Will give it a shot. Thank you.