Have you talked to your wife about her libido? About changing meds and talking to a sex therapist maybe? I am sure you did but it doesn’t say in your post.

It feels like cheating because it is probably cheating, depending on how your wife feels about it. Different people have different boundaries, some are ok with open relationships and others are not ok with porn, so depends on where you two fall. Personally for me the line is crossed when you interact with the person and/or pay for it in a sea of free porn.

If you want to stay with your wife and not cheat then that would mean addressing the low libido. There are subreddits for people in dead bedrooms (but read those with caution since people can be salty and vindictive).

The girl is unhappy with her life and jealous of yours, and possibly trying to get it. It’s sad, but inappropriate. Shut her down harder next time

Call me a grandma, but what in the euphoria hell is an ‘exclusive fwb’?

Either you’re in a relationship, and sexually and emotionally committed to each other (assuming monogamous), or you’re not exclusive and just have sex. In that case that’s not your gf/bf, they don’t owe you anything, and you should wear a condom regardless so of whether you’re ‘exclusive’ or not.

She likes some guy and had emotional connection with him, as is her right as a single woman. If you feel hurt by that you don’t have to put up with her or anything. But there’s no ‘forgiving’ here. She hasn’t don’t anything that may warrant forgiveness, if you think that you’d be entitled

So basically his stay at home gf who cooks, cleans and takes care of his kid?

I truly hope you see you need to build your future prospects and your financial independence. This is not negotiable.

If you have your own money, you can go live in your own house away from everyone you dont want to see and create your own living environment.

If you keep on doing this, what will end up happening is that you'll have no money, no job experience and nothing to show for. If he dumps you in the future you would have to start from nothing, which will be so much harder without a college degree and at an older age.

You're only 19. Please make good decisions for your future

Cat fish him on reddit, set up a 'meet up', show up to the date and have him explain himself.

Also, dont forget to save all the screenshots before you do any of this

Girl i am not even going to go into the age gap because I am sure people already dragged you for it.

Lets talk about the employee-employer relationship. If you were working at any other place, say you're working at a McDonald's and your boss says that -would you skip on college for this? Do you see how insane that sounds?

Your education is probably the most important thing in your life. It will change your thinking and worldview, help your career, help you make a difference in the world. Worst case scenario if the worse things happen you can atleast use your education to earn a living and buy yourself food.

Someone who tells you to neglect your education so you can go do your job - a job that btw doesn't have a lot of growth potential because where do you go from babysitting? Thr ceo of babysitting club? - this person does not have your best interest at heart.

Its when compa I want you to come in despite you being sick, the weather, family emergency etc. You do realize in those case the company doesn't actually care about the emploand only about the work being done? That's exactly your bf - all he cares about is that someone is there to take care of his kid - he doesn't care about your life or your development.

I truly hope you wont permanently screw up your future for a guy you're seeing and make good decisions.

(Btw please tell me he is still paying you as a babysitter and you're not doing it for free because youre his gf because GOOD LAWD that would be bad)

>Did I do the right thing by leaving?

Yes

> Is a cheater forever going to be a cheater?

Most likely, but good news - thats not your problem anymore

What's the name of this service btw? 👀