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ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq2xuy wrote
Reply to comment by PaladinCloudring in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
Idk if she'd go that far. The reason she wants me to take control is because she has almost no sexual urges after her meds fucked up her libido, unless she watches porn. Too many other things in this relationship are amazing to drop it because I suck at putting out, and yes I've found help. Just recently I've been really bad with performance anxiety when I'm about to try things, mainly because i've dropped the ball almost every night for a week and a bit. Once things happen and I realize I can do it, it goes way better and I can be confident.
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq2ak1 wrote
Reply to comment by sirdodger in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
Ok I may just do that. I just struggle with that to not overstep boundaries because she's very self conscious and they change depending on how her day was.
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq24e8 wrote
Reply to comment by PaladinCloudring in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
Fair fair, I just suck at confidence... Which is exactly what she wants from me. Idk why it even gets me so anxious, it just does. I think it comes from how easily she blames herself for everything and I don't want her to feel bad
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq1rl5 wrote
Reply to comment by PaladinCloudring in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
Tempting next time, but fuck if my anxiety makes me struggle to even say things like that because I'm scared to mess up
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq1kwo wrote
Reply to comment by mozzamo in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
That's the thing, she never gives off a direct no vibe, just a clueless vibe, and my inexperience ain't helping because I'm just as clueless
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq1coq wrote
Reply to comment by sirdodger in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
That's the fun part, she doesn't like it to feel planned so she just wants me to take control "when the moments right" which I struggle with and i've told her as much. If I keep failing I'll bring it up again
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq0zdm wrote
Reply to comment by ZharethZhen in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
No, she hates non consensual anything due to an abusive ex. She's into very loving sex, cuddling and I love you's throughout, she just wants me to take the lead and I struggle with that. We're both rather submissive. I also worded that poorly
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq0q9x wrote
Reply to comment by rundownv2 in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
Ok maybe force wasn't the right wording there. She wants me to fully take control by laying her on her back and "kissing the shit out of her" but I struggle to do that without doubt on if it's the right time and all that, which is why I work my way up to making out, see if she's into it y'know. She just normally pulls away before I get to the good part
ThatOneGuys-porn t1_jdq350e wrote
Reply to comment by PaladinCloudring in TIFU by saying I really struggle to initiate sexy times with my GF by [deleted]
That got a good laugh. Will try my best. I can do a mean helicopter