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Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pg8fn wrote
Reply to comment by Mediumokrahmom in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
But with her it was instant and intense connection.. It’s rare
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pd6ba wrote
Reply to comment by BekahBeks in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
I wish.
She kind of moved on quickly after she broke it off and started seeing someone else.
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pc0q2 wrote
Reply to comment by BekahBeks in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
:/ I'm having a hard time I don't know if I'll ever truly move on from this one.
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pah7r wrote
Reply to comment by Blind_Wolf in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
Thanks.. It's been over a year and I am still struggling when I think about it. I just miss talking to her, no others I've dated has felt close to the same.
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pab7y wrote
Reply to comment by DMmeOffensiveJokesPP in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
It was a while, I never had a real relationship before I really didn't know what I was doing.
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6p7sjs wrote
Reply to comment by DMmeOffensiveJokesPP in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
Life goals and mindset were extremely similar. Connection was amazing.
I just was not able to be super vulnerable and give my all at the time, because of past experiences.
And so I fucked it up because of that and now I can’t seem to forgive myself for not giving it the full chance it deserved.
Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6p7hu8 wrote
Reply to comment by Mediumokrahmom in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
I did though. I just have problems with vulnerability and so keeping them at a “distance” was more about not letting myself get hurt than anything to do w how much I loved them.
Ended up way more hurt because then you have regrets about not giving enough and that’s why it failed
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Swimming-Rough-9514 OP t1_j6pj1rz wrote
Reply to comment by Mediumokrahmom in How do you get over and forgive yourself for blowing a relationship with the one you deeply love because you weren’t putting in the required effort to grow and maintain it? by Swimming-Rough-9514
Maybe. I’m actively trying to get over her though. It’s just not as easy as you are trying to depict