I know Reddit doesn’t like age gaps but we do have a very healthy dynamic and people have commented that we are great together. We are also at similar life stages. I know that maybe my perspective on communication might still change in the future since I’m still young, so I’m just asking objectively if that’s a reasonable complaint to have. I guess you’re right and I should probably bring it up anyway.

He is visiting family and friends for the holidays because they live across the country and he hasn’t seen them in a few years. I’m totally understanding of that because my family lives in a different country and I do sometimes visit for long periods of time too. Otherwise we live close to each other and would spend time together all the time. But I’m very good with texting and he is not so much. Idk if it’s a good thing to bring it up because I don’t want him to feel like he HAS TO do it. I’m just upset that he doesn’t feel the same way I do about, you know?