How is your social life? You are already good with your finances, obviously good habits got you to this point in that regard. Maybe concentrate more on your social life (not meaning blow money away).

You don’t have a deadline to buy a house. It is not like you are getting kicked out. Just wait until real estate settles down then re-evaluate. You are in great shape financially.

I know people who have lived at home even longer than 30 (cultural).

What is the pressure you have?? Who is pressuring you? It sounds like it is self-inflicted. If you buy a home, you will still have pressure, in a different way (to pay the mortgage, fix broken things, replace roof, etc). Just relax and don’t overthink.