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Sleep-system t1_jdic1wu wrote
Reply to comment by Hardcorish in Adults that act like children a majority of their life result in their children having to act like adults for a majority of theirs. by Hardcorish
No, you're wrong, but it's only because you're ignorant about the reality of what you're talking about. Anyway, have a good one.
Sleep-system t1_jdi8dgg wrote
Reply to comment by Hardcorish in Adults that act like children a majority of their life result in their children having to act like adults for a majority of theirs. by Hardcorish
Yeah, that isn't acting like an adult. Plenty of kids do things like that all the time in a healthy context.
The "adult" part in your scenario, and what is in fact abuse, is that the kids you're talking about have no choice.
Sleep-system t1_jdi65pa wrote
Reply to comment by Hardcorish in Adults that act like children a majority of their life result in their children having to act like adults for a majority of theirs. by Hardcorish
I worked at a non-profit for homeless and drug addicted mothers for several years in the Bay Area. My mom is a social worker. I can promise you that for every one kid who "grows up fast" to take care of their siblings there are 50 who can barely take care of themselves let alone their siblings, are malnourished, extremely angry, extremely violent, having no coping skills, can't read, can't do basic math, can't focus, etc.
And those kids who "grew up too fast" are far from adults. They are children with cobbled together survival skills and often a deep distrust for adults. If they don't seek help they'll usually carry that distrust and trauma into adulthood, and guess what? They don't look anything like the plucky little kid who rose above the odds because putting on a strong face all those years while being emotionally deprived and abused profoundly damaged them psychologically.
I shouldn't have called you an idiot since I don't know whether or not you intended to suggest there was some silver lining or anything beneficial in kids acting like adults. But if you actually interact with them, they don't act much like adults. They act like kids who've had to adjust and survive, manage basic functions like preparing meals or changing diapers, and spend the rest of their time fortifying their fragile mental state. They're nothing like any adult you'd ever want to see.
Sleep-system t1_jdgvqdw wrote
Reply to Biden designates area sacred to tribes as largest national monument of his presidency by citytiger
This is uplifting, well done.
Sleep-system t1_jdgv9sa wrote
Reply to Adults that act like children a majority of their life result in their children having to act like adults for a majority of theirs. by Hardcorish
You wish. It just leads to more uneducated, undisciplined and immature adults who have children of their own, raise them irresponsibly and continue the cycle.
The person who wrote this has probably never actually been around highly dysfunctional families because this take is idiotic.
Sleep-system t1_jczgvbv wrote
Reply to comment by GldnRetriever in Medical Marijuana Legalization Linked To ‘Significant Decrease’ In Opioid-Related Payments To Doctors, Study Finds by DrDreidel82
There are so many different strains, I doubt they'd all do that to you. Like I can't smoke the Jack Herer strain, it gives me a ton of anxiety and restlessness. And I'd never smoke Blue Dream as a sub for adderall because it would make me too spacey, even though it love it when I want that effect.
I'd track down Red Congo if you haven't already, that one is the best received from all the people I've suggested it to over the years.
And one caveat is that it helps a lot if you live in a place with dispensaries so you can get a steady supply of specific strains at consistent quality, otherwise the medicinal benefit probably won't be as strong.
Sleep-system t1_jcz8fpf wrote
Reply to Medical Marijuana Legalization Linked To ‘Significant Decrease’ In Opioid-Related Payments To Doctors, Study Finds by DrDreidel82
I completely ditched my Adderall (2x 20mg XR a day) for sativas. Durban Poison or Red Congolese give me the same focus with no anxiety, no harsh drop off and a pleasant background euphoria all day. It's completely insane this isn't ordinary prescribed medicine.
Sleep-system t1_jbljlfq wrote
Yeah, the average life expectancy rises when men don't feel like they have to the right to murder women because won't do what they're told.
Sleep-system t1_jass3h4 wrote
Reply to comment by DATY4944 in Sea creatures in Greek manuscript and Norse mythology may have been whales with mouths agape — Fish instinctively swim toward apparent shelter of creature’s mouth, a phenomenon depicted in ancient texts as early as 2,000 years ago by marketrent
I'm sure they did, people were fantastically ignorant and superstitious back then.
Sleep-system t1_jaocntj wrote
Reply to Sea creatures in Greek manuscript and Norse mythology may have been whales with mouths agape — Fish instinctively swim toward apparent shelter of creature’s mouth, a phenomenon depicted in ancient texts as early as 2,000 years ago by marketrent
So they believed in monsters because fish are idiots.
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Sleep-system OP t1_j5zhs0e wrote
Reply to comment by Wuz42 in How my dog looks at my girlfriend by Sleep-system
It's the real DoF from the lens 😂
Sleep-system OP t1_j5xbcfg wrote
Reply to comment by AmbientLighter in How my dog looks at my girlfriend by Sleep-system
Yes, probably.
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Sleep-system OP t1_j5chqbd wrote
Reply to comment by Therapistsfor200 in The menu at my local cheese shop by Sleep-system
Cheese Board in Berkeley
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Sleep-system t1_j1yx3ff wrote
Reply to Kids realize what you did for them and appreciate it once they have kids of their own. Spouses or SOs don’t realize or appreciate it until you’re gone. by Yourfaceis-23
My appreciation of how devoted my mom was is the reason why I'll never have kids. I have no interest in giving that much of my time and energy to children.
Sleep-system t1_j1lo3ok wrote
I started smoking weed and have very little interest in depressing or violent media now
Sleep-system OP t1_iy6iifg wrote
Reply to comment by DJGlennW in Boo-boo is slang for a romantic partner, a pet, minor injuries and feces. by Sleep-system
Yeah.. maybe it's a regional thing?
Sleep-system OP t1_iy6hcmw wrote
Reply to comment by JoZaJaB in Boo-boo is slang for a romantic partner, a pet, minor injuries and feces. by Sleep-system
Boom-boom? Is that a white thing?
Sleep-system OP t1_iy6harv wrote
Reply to comment by DJGlennW in Boo-boo is slang for a romantic partner, a pet, minor injuries and feces. by Sleep-system
I know plenty of people who call their partner boo-boo. And both poo-poo and boo-boo are used for feces.
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Reply to comment by burnodo2 in One of the homes in Normandy Village, a residential neighborhood in Berkeley, CA by Sleep-system
Yeah, I live down the street and finally took a pic walking the dog
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Sleep-system t1_je28swp wrote
Reply to Lea Thompson in the 1980s makes me contemplate about me being born in the wrong era by [deleted]
Just go to any Target, bro.