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Reddit-username_here t1_j9b8lud wrote

The definition could be different for every relationship, but most people would consider making a personal connection with someone else, especially for sexual reasons, to be cheating.

With porn, you're not actually making any kind of connection with them, so most people don't care about that. Some do, but for the most part it's not an issue.

Now, if you were subscribing to someone's Only fans or something like that, talking to them, requesting things, then most people are probably going to find an issue with that as well.

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Reddit-username_here t1_j3w47f0 wrote

Shit, I say go old school and write this on a note and hand it to her and walk away. "I thought my friends were just trying to prank me last time. But if you want my number, it's xxx-xxxx."

Then, if you get a message from her, cool. If you don't, cool. At least you didn't have to hear no in person like she did.

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