If you are experiencing chronic pain from day to day stuff, you should really be working on routines that stabilize the affected muscle groups before jumping into weight training. That's just asking for an injury.

Core and shoulder work fixed my back pain in a matter of weeks. I thought it was sciatica, and it turned out it was just a chain reaction from my posture sucking and my core not being very stable.

That said, getting an evaluation from a physical therapist is the best move if you can. They can give you a better idea of what you, personally, need to work on and how.

At the bar with your ex girlfriends

I mean, being the butt of a joke is kinda different than someone just forgetting.

There was a girl in my Spanish class in hs that did that to her mom. She thought it was hilarious. Then she actually got pregnant later on purpose in some kind of attempt to keep her boyfriend from going to jail (idk either man, she was p dumb) and nobody believed her for a really long time.

Her mom got custody of the baby, so happy ending ig.