I appreciate this insight. I know he had no way of knowing that I would go to the ER that night but it hurt me so much being alone and receiving this news about our daughter, and having nobody with me

I wasnt upset about him going to his sisters - I was upset that he got too drunk to come up to the ER and I had to bear the news that our daughter may not be viable outside the womb. It was rough.

Since my relationship with my sons father (abuser) I have always thought leaving and protecting myself from hurt was the solution. It isn’t and I feel so horribly that I’ve made him feel this way in the past.

I appreciate this response. Thank you so much.

Thank you. I feel like these pregnancy emotions are ruining my relationship. I’m so reactive lately but the medication I started has helped a lot. I don’t get upset so easily anymore. I’ve kind of just let things go at their own pace. Things are better but I can tell this time, I hurt him.

I had to bear the news alone that our daughter may not survive outside the womb and he was too drunk to come to the hospital. I think I had a right to be upset. But my reaction was not ok.