Okay, I mean that's a bit far. We've been together for almost 2 years and this has happened 3 times tops, which is still frustrating but it's not like he's constantly ditching me.

I know that he's having a family thing for Halloween (I saw it on his mum's insta) so I know why he didn't come by now and it's fine, it just frustrating that he didn't tell me cause I always make sure to keep at least one day of the weekend free for him and said no to other plans that I could've gone to.

I don't think I should have to confirm with him every single weekend. It's the norm that he comes on the weekend. We talked about it. It's just common sense that if something comes in the way of those plans that he'd tell me he won't be able to make it.

Like if you were supposed to meet up with a friend, you wouldn't just not go without saying anything. You'd let them know that you can't make it.