Odd-Sock2486
Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m5bw1 wrote
Reply to comment by Crystal010Rose in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
I will respond
Yes thank you,
- I agree
2.i definitely can not offord it, he lives in a 1 bedroom 1 bath apartment. They are asking $1,400 for a 12 year new lease. I still have my car payments, my health insurance, phone plan, etc. etc.
- Do I want to live with him right now? No, Do I want to live with him down the road? Yes, his current apartment is only fit for 1 person, not 2. He does have a full grown Sheppard that sleeps in a huge kennel (takes up alot of space) he never keeps food in his apartment, due to him working alot and never home. If I were to bring all my clothes/furniture/essentials, there would be no where to put any of my stuff. I've had a conversation with him about finding a apartment that is a bit bigger for his needs also, because he does have his family over alot and its super cramped, but ofc he can't offord anything else but where he is at now.
This is the first time I've heard him Brought up this altimatum. The first year we started dating the only serious conversation was that he wanted me to stay over more, and I did.
Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m2lkq wrote
Reply to comment by ContentedRecluse in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
How can I go about this with him? I know when I told him I can't move in right now, he said he can't wait for me any longer, at the same time the "altimatum" was the first time I've ever heard this from him. I feel under pressure since i only have 2 months to figure it out wich is a big step/stroll on alot of stuff.
Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m17wz wrote
Reply to comment by sportxsport in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
That's my speculation.
Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m1478 wrote
Reply to comment by bezrodnyi-kosmopolit in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
Yes, when we talked about it he said he wants me to pay more on the electric bill since I'll be home more than he does. Everything else is 50/50 but his place isn't the cheapest either.
Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m0jv3 wrote
Reply to comment by tossout7878 in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
I eventually do yes! But can I right now? Not likely :/ I do see a future with him, and I do plan on getting a higher wage job.
Odd-Sock2486 OP t1_j6m6a5u wrote
Reply to comment by bezrodnyi-kosmopolit in (25F) my (29M) boyfriend will break up with me if not moved in. by Odd-Sock2486
I have to pay my car, car insurance, health insurance, medical bills, phone plan, gas, etc.etc.
He lives in a 1bedroom apartment that is going to cost $1,400 divide that by 2 that is $700, on top of his HOA fee, electric bill, his electric bill can run around $120. And he has to pay for internet, so I can definitely say it will be close or to $1,000.