No-Yesterday6541

No-Yesterday6541 t1_jeatals wrote

I never asked him to text me constantly, I just asked for updates. To knows he’s okay. Me being upset comes from him saying he’s staying the night somewhere and then I found out he stayed somewhere else and he didn’t tell me nor did he plan on telling. How would you feel if your significant other said they were staying at a friends house and you found out they were staying at some random person’s house? The anger also comes from him telling me he’s on his way home from somewhere and showing up three hours later when it’s a 25 minute drive, his word were “we are getting in the truck to leave right now and do not to worry about eating dinner alone.”

I want to repeat I’m not angry that he goes out I’m angry about the lack of communication. But I guess according to you I’m the bad guy and communicating isn’t important in relationships.

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No-Yesterday6541 t1_jean4uv wrote

He wants to go out every weekend. Like he would honestly probably go out every Friday and Saturday if he could and he probably will now. He was a huge party guy in high school and I met him just after he graduated. After starting to date me he chilled out a lot. He now goes out 1-2 times a month. When my gut issues started though we/he didn’t go out for 2 months. I think that’s what really tipped him over the edge. When fighting he said he hasn’t gone out because he didn’t want to deal with how I respond.

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