Why can’t she be more than a friend? If this friendship is so great, why not friends and partners for life and make it work till death do us part? If you push back now the friendship is screwed anyway. If you give it a chance assuming you are sexually attracted to her and she is a great person you wanna be friends for life with… why not give it a shot? Better have tried to make it work than not saying you “treasure the friendship” and don’t wanna risk it, but crush it anyway. If you both really tried and it failed you can say I treasure you as a friend but we unfortunately didn’t work out and I gave us a chance.
No-Bobcat-883 t1_j1miwfj wrote
Reply to TIFU by almost hooking up with one of my best friends. by throwawayonlypls
Why can’t she be more than a friend? If this friendship is so great, why not friends and partners for life and make it work till death do us part? If you push back now the friendship is screwed anyway. If you give it a chance assuming you are sexually attracted to her and she is a great person you wanna be friends for life with… why not give it a shot? Better have tried to make it work than not saying you “treasure the friendship” and don’t wanna risk it, but crush it anyway. If you both really tried and it failed you can say I treasure you as a friend but we unfortunately didn’t work out and I gave us a chance.