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New-Negotiation7234 t1_j52m63z wrote

What I put in my living will is to have no artificial nutrition (tpn, tube feeding) if I am in a permanent altered mental status, dementia, or in a coma etc. The artificial nutrition is given wayyyy too often for no benefit to the person and it’s what keeps people alive. Also, once it is started it becomes VERY difficult for family members to take people off of it because they then feel like they are starving them and killing them. Not eating is a natural part of the death process.

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New-Negotiation7234 t1_j4yov4h wrote

Extremely depressing. People don’t understand how much pain and suffering happens because of futile measures to keep ppl alive. Also the lack of basic understanding and science. For example someone I talked to recently had a friend that had a very rare form of anal cancer. No one has ever survived with this cancer but her friend was determined. People don’t understand it’s not just the primary type of cancer you have but what stage it is that makes it incurable.

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New-Negotiation7234 t1_j4yo6xo wrote

Insurance dictates how much money is given to the hospital based on a diagnostic code. For example pneumonia is 2.9 days so the hospital gets that amount of money if the patient is admitted for 2 days or 20. Also, insurances do not cover 30 day readmits. So it’s not really the hospital. They make money on surgeries

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New-Negotiation7234 t1_j4ynmtv wrote

“We believe in miracles”. Your family member has zero quality of live, is brain damaged, can’t breath on their own, has tubes stuck in them, can’t eat but yeah let’s keep waiting on that miracle

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New-Negotiation7234 t1_j4ymxp6 wrote

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New-Negotiation7234 t1_j4ymskv wrote

After working in health care I now have a very detailed living will and POA and everyone close to me knows my wishes. I have seen the horrors and torture families put their loved ones through. No thanks.

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