I’m not justifying what i did i fucked up real bad and i feel so much remorse and I would never wanna put someone through that pain again. But i was seriously hurt too. My trust was broken by him and he made me insecure. We both fucked up and hurt each other. I don’t understand why you’re attacking me? I just wanted some advice

No wtf? Sorry some of us make mistakes and we can’t all be perfect like you.. but if someone regrets their mistake it still means nothing?

Lmfao ok people can’t go to therapy and better themselves they’ll always be defined by their mistakes lol

I’m sorry that happened to you but once a cheater always a cheater isn’t applicable to everyone. There are tons of people out there who fucked up once and never did it again

I tried but i believe in second chances because we’re all human and no one’s perfect and people can change. And i tried therapy to help me get over my resentment but obviously I’m not completely healed yet

I’m not justifying anything i know i fucked up I’m just explaining why i did what i did.. and why would I lose my right to anger? That’s honestly so stupid. My therapist tells me I’m justified in feeling that way. Yes i chose to stay with him but that doesn’t mean it erases everything

I would never cheat again i feel like such a disgusting piece of shit i never want to hurt someone like this again 😔 i’d end things before ie ever cheated again

I truly did want only him. But i never felt enough for him. His betrayal includes hooking up with another girl while telling me i could trust him. I wanted to wait for marriage but he told me i could trust him. So i did and i regretted it so much when i found out he was just using me. But i believe he changed and was truly in love with me but i just couldn’t convince myself of that

Not together we have our individual sessions

He has complete access to my phone and my laptop and I’m willing to do anything he asks of me i truly do regret hurting him like this. We’re thinking of couples therapy too

I think i still felt resentment from when he did it to me.. i never really got over his betrayals

We know it’s toxic but we both started going to therapy we want to be better for each other