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Live-Associate-2911 t1_j9b9hzq wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in The turning lane is not for driving (Fremont and Republic intersection) by ho1doncaulfield
I absolutely read that. It means that the person in the turning lane could have just gotten behind them instead of trying to force their way in. Hell, they could have just waited 10 seconds and pulled in safely behind them. What is your point? That OP should have stepped on the breaks to let that person in front of them? Why?
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j9b7pcn wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in The turning lane is not for driving (Fremont and Republic intersection) by ho1doncaulfield
Bless your little heart.
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j9b71w8 wrote
Reply to comment by GundleFly in The turning lane is not for driving (Fremont and Republic intersection) by ho1doncaulfield
First off, thanks for being cool. I am also being sincere. For the record I 100% agree with you in regards to how to react to bad drivers and also drive this way if I am able to safely. I just know the exact area OP is talking about and it's a huge problem over there. More importantly, I was taking feelings I have on a very personal issue out on you and that's not cool. So yes, it got a little dramatic but it also made me laugh because I spent way too much time imagining this scenario in a Mad Max type world. I'm still baffled with Fury Road - the warriors on bendy poles and the entire driving/fighting scene while some guy is strapped down ripping on an electric guitar...just boggles my mind.
All in all we agree to agree on the big issue. If we met in the real world we would most likely get along. I hope you have a good day!
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j99fk0b wrote
Reply to comment by GundleFly in The turning lane is not for driving (Fremont and Republic intersection) by ho1doncaulfield
You gotta chill with the analogies. Mad max here. Emperor of whatever in another. Has anyone ever called you dramatic before? We are talking a 400-600ft stretch of road. Neither person had road rage. It was ignorance vs rational. I would have done the same thing...because if I needed to be in the turn lane I would expect the other driver, who shouldn't even be driving/attempting to merge, to yield to me. There is a time and place to act the way you are preaching and this wasn't the situation. Why do you think YOU are in the right here? You have fabricated your own version of events based on adjectives. OP was steamed, wanted to vent. They followed laws and took the next exit. Catching the bird isn't a huge deal. You act like this person was waving a gun and OP is driving some apocalyptic rig with a dude playing a flaming guitar tied to a bendy pole on their car.
Fun fact: my almost 18 year old niece has a permanent disability and her face will never be the same because of an accident caused by a situation VERY similar to this. Not this city and a much more dangerous stretch of road but an eerily similar scenario. The other driver was so adamant that it was my niece's fault because "everyone always lets me in and she is a young driver who doesn't know the rules." Guess who was 100% at fault? Not my niece. Guess who gets to live with the actual lifelong consequences? It's not the driver of the other car. No, they get to live life unscathed. My niece had a private driving instructor, she followed the law. She took driving a car seriously and drove defensively. This asshole has changed the trajectory of her life bc everyone just bent to their ignorance. Enabled them. But please..defend them and try to make OP the bad guy.
Not every situation is crazy road rage. You can use trigger words to create a narrative all you want but at the end of the day you are telling OP they should have slowed down in the main driving lane..which is HELLA unsafe. Why don't you write up an essay for my niece on how she was in the wrong? What kind of dramatic title would you give her?
Agree to disagree but I think you are wrong to attack OP. I also think you have a flair for making things into more than they actually are.
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j996z6l wrote
Reply to comment by the_honeyman in The turning lane is not for driving (Fremont and Republic intersection) by ho1doncaulfield
No traffic behind them...did you read that?
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j992iwx wrote
Reply to comment by GundleFly in The turning lane is not for driving (Fremont and Republic intersection) by ho1doncaulfield
I hear you and I think you must not be familiar with this area. I drive it daily and OP is 100% right. Why should OP accommodate a poor drivers skills? They are not at fault..at all. Stepping on brakes and letting them in creates a situation where the other driver continues to think they are in the right. They are not and what they are doing is unsafe. Taking the next light down didn't make a difference in OP day. You must be a middle lane merger.
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Reply to comment by jcsunag in Moving boxes by InteractionOwn4759
This needs more traction! I see them posted frequently!
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j8pswbe wrote
I'm so happy you are going to StL! Nothing wrong with a second opinion but pediatrics in Springfield don't hold a candle to Barnes or Wash. It's not a slam on our local providers either, I'm glad our local docs care enough to make the calls and connections to get your daughter in up there. It's one of the best in the country and she will be in good hands.
Don't forget FMLA to protect your job and regardless if you are assertive or not, don't forget your husband isn't a medical professional. You are doing an awesome job Momma! All the vibes for your girl to start feeling better. Please check into resources like Ronald McDonald house. The hospital should be able to help you with a list of these types of organizations.
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j3uoyoz wrote
Reply to comment by texsurfin in How to proceed by [deleted]
Hate to be a dick or judgmental but I don't. You need a lot of attention to get by in life, right? HONEST QUESTION
Live-Associate-2911 t1_j3uoipb wrote
Reply to How to proceed by [deleted]
Mother of a child of that age. If it feels wrong please report it.
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Love this place! Queen City Collectors!
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