I mean, muscles take time to build up. Doing it for a few seconds the day you go in won’t do anything. If you want to make an impact make it a habit to do it every time you brush your teeth or something, and stretch it daily, otherwise it’s nothing.

Or just use the discounts on your actual birthday and save it for people? I use my 20% off at bath and body works for a huge haul of things that I will give to others in my family, there’s plenty of discount codes given this time of year anyways.

I mean, if you only texted them once they might have forgotten about it or gotten busy

Exactly. You don’t distract yourself with math and numbers, you focus on your partner and making them happy. That’s all I mean to say. If I’m with someone who’s so busy trying to just last forever instead of making me happy, I’d be upset. It sounds like the goal is to last as long as possible instead of just make each other happy.

Considering I’m a female neither are correct. I’m just saying that distraction from your partner by math is going to frustrate them. Statistically men don’t last long sure, but in practice I’ve never seen anything less than 20min. Guess I’m just lucky.

I never said men didn’t have issues they couldn’t solve. I’m saying this is a deeper issue. If you cannot last long enough to please your partner that you go to counting, which is only going to distract you from pleasing your partner, then maybe you need to find help in a different place, that isn’t doing math.

I don’t think most men have this issue. If you can’t last long enough to please your partner thats a YOU issue. It doesn’t happen often.