Imaginary-Ad-9397
Imaginary-Ad-9397 t1_j85klwe wrote
Reply to comment by niceoutside2022 in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
I have seen this sentiment being echoed by lots of people here, and it genuinely sounds like solid advice.
My only question is : where do you draw the line and say you're incompatible ? Surely two people can't be expected to look eye to eye on every single matter. And if there are differences, how many should be allowed before the question of compatibility arises.
Maybe she wants to roam the world, but you wanna get settled, and you two agree on everything else. Is that a deal breaker ?
Imaginary-Ad-9397 t1_j85nxrj wrote
Reply to comment by -GreyPaws in Large study provides evidence that goal incongruence can harm romantic relationship satisfaction by glum-platimium
You know what, i like this sentiment better. Ofc if there are too many things you disagree on, then it's best to move on. But communication, and actively working on problems is the way to go.