I'd visit first if you haven't already and make that call for yourself. I (30F) lived around there for years in my 20s and still work around there and hang out around there and personally dont feel unsafe. Crossing North Cap on foot is just a thing people have to do from time to time. Just make sure you walk right, mind your business and be respectful. if you can afford it, take a ride share home if you're out late. if not, there are a ton of bus lines nearby that can take you wherever. there's a ton of new development, for better or for worse, that's not for me to say. if you're looking for a short term visit while you scope places out in those neighborhoods, there are quite a few hotels around and a trendy new selina hostel nearby as well. good luck on the apartment search!

the selina hotel is throwing a super chill "slumber" party. no pressure, safe space to either drink or not drink. there will be DJs and art stuff and lots of room to sit and meet people or dance or just vibe. the ticket gets you a discount code for a room if you wanna stay there and continue the fun in the morning with mimosas and yoga.

https://www.selina.com/usa/event/selinaslumberparty/

I just got one in for the first time at GW MFA and the doc suggested the numbing shots - I didn't know that was even an option and man oh man did she save me from a world of hurt. She said always ask for the shot while you're making the appointment and if they say no, bail. She also said take ibuprofen before going, otherwise they'll give you some and wait for it to kick in before administering the numbing shot and inserting the iud. they were also great about giving me time to just sorta veg out while the shot wore off.