Are you sure he isn’t trying to prostitute you and secretly wants to get paid by those man? A lot of human trafficking cases start this way you see.

I’m reading red flags. Potentially he’s love-bombed you (look it up). He gives you attention, disappears, cycle continues. He’s hooked you on the little affection you get every now and then and you feel head over heels while really he’s manipulated the code in your brain longing for affection, essentially you’re an addict now.