Gold-Yak-5380
Gold-Yak-5380 t1_iyfccjh wrote
Reply to comment by MckittenMan in Boyfriend is mad at me because it makes me uncomfortable hearing about his friends' sex lives by [deleted]
It's not just the sharing it with me that bugs me, it's him willingly listening to this stuff in detail from his friends etc. Like I guess I just wonder why he has to do that since I think it's pretty gross and unnecessary, but I'm not a guy, so maybe that's normal?
Gold-Yak-5380 t1_iyfc82c wrote
Reply to comment by WeaselWeaz in Boyfriend is mad at me because it makes me uncomfortable hearing about his friends' sex lives by [deleted]
It's not just the sharing it with me that bugs me, it's him willingly listening to it from his friends etc. Like I guess I just wonder why he has to do that since I think it's pretty gross and unnecessary, but I'm not a guy, so maybe that's normal?
Gold-Yak-5380 t1_iyfbqc2 wrote
Reply to comment by StateParkBrigade in Boyfriend is mad at me because it makes me uncomfortable hearing about his friends' sex lives by [deleted]
I'm still trying to talk to him about it but he says it's pointless and dumb and I guess to an extent, it is, but it just makes me feel like gross? I dunno. Should I keep trying or just accept the fact that it is what it is? His responses are just "okay" and "yeah well _____" so it's quite clear that he's not in a position to have understanding for me in this situation I think
Gold-Yak-5380 t1_iyfaw5s wrote
Reply to comment by StateParkBrigade in Boyfriend is mad at me because it makes me uncomfortable hearing about his friends' sex lives by [deleted]
I mean I've told him that it makes me uncomfortable that he reads stuff like that but I know he's still going to do it. I guess I can't control him doing that but I just wish he wouldn't willingly listen to stuff like that y'know? IMO I don't think it's exactly rude to say you don't want to hear about your friend's happy ending in detail lol
Gold-Yak-5380 t1_iyfdtqx wrote
Reply to comment by WeaselWeaz in Boyfriend is mad at me because it makes me uncomfortable hearing about his friends' sex lives by [deleted]
I dunno really, I guess I'm just wondering if it's like normal that someone can get so angry at their partner over something like this