Yeah. I tend to avoid women that have dumped me for other men. It’s a whole Pandora’s box. This is all too common. Men have to abide by the social rules that women create in the dating scene and can’t be themselves until WAAAY later in the process. It’s why if you’re feeling so attached, distract yourself. If she truly loves you, she’ll come back. Though, she went on to call you repulsive and bad mouth you to your friends. If the night didn’t go as she expected, and if it’s true that you acted like a couple the next morning, she was either using you, has a messed up way of thinking; or was genuinely trying to avoid the emotional aspects. People use people for their own insecurities, physical, or emotional needs. People are shitty, BUT there’s a silver lining! Not everyone is shitty. You just happened to meet one person who can hide it well.

Also, the whole rescinding consent during the action I get. Drunk sex is not consensual in any way. If she had rescinded her consent AFTER the fact, I’d be prepared for anything.

Salvage what friendships you deem important and those who you think will believe in you. Cut out the others, move on with your life. Easier said than done. Took me YEARS. You got this.

Break up with her. She’s gonna break up with you (I only know this because that’s how it usually goes as teenagers when they’re on a “break”. If you’re an adult, attempt to work it out AFTER she’s had her space). This does NOT mean I’m siding with you. It’s just for the best OP. Stay single and work on yourself my friend. No woman deserves this. If you suspected something like this, you have trust issues. I learned that the hard way.

In addition, always keep your guard up. It’s a vice versa situation. We don’t know what the ACTUAL situation is like. We’re just Reddit.

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I’m sorry, this is gonna sound horrible, but if I were you I would have made sure I called a social worker on her and reported her for being mentally unfit to care for herself (even if she is mentally there, she’ll have to deal with it). I would then proceed to tell his parents and family how he is a good for nothing person that will betray them at the drop of a hat and take that evidence with me, turning them against him. I’d make sure life was a living nightmare of inconveniences. It wouldn’t be forever. Just long enough. Something similar happened to me, but yours takes the cake.