Glintstone-Jedi
Glintstone-Jedi t1_iyf2qws wrote
Reply to Help I (18 M) accidentally called my GF (23 F) “mommy “ in front of her family. by [deleted]
Bro you do you. If you and she are into it, have at it.
You're the sub here, right? Trust your domme. She told you it's all right. Let it be all right. Your submissive/domme kink is not fucked up, plenty of guys have a subby side. Yeah she told you to go to the room. She probably talked to her family about it. And probably asserted herself to basically leave it alone.
You're gonna have to face it go talk to your girlfriend and ask advice on how best to, since it is her family.
Glintstone-Jedi t1_iydddl5 wrote
Run. Runnnnnn. You got a narcissistic manipulator there.
I'ma be honest dude I won't go fucking near a woman who scoffs at splitting a bill or who lets a single word like "provider" spill from her lips. It's 2022 I expect women to be prepared to be part of a dual income household. If you ever have a partner act like this about money discussions even once, that's your exit. That goes for everyone of all genders.
Its 2022 unless you and your partner agree fully on stay at home and one income or on a specific person being responsible for finances, or something similar, finances should be handled as equals.
Glintstone-Jedi t1_iybbo42 wrote
As a bi guy...
This is going to matter alot more to you when you have kids and you want to teach them that how you are is normal and he wants to teach them that how you are is an abomination to God.
Yall made it work until this point, likely against the odds. He wants to pretend this part of you does not exist. You don't.
You're not rational. Its love, love is irrational. But you're actively trying to allow love to overrule your judgement. And point of order here, he is not. You are the more invested person here. Like you said, he doesn't want you passing your gay ideas or genes onto his children.
This is over. When you admit that to yourself is kinda up to you, but the longer it takes the more damage you'll do to yourself in the end.
P.S. If one of your kids is gay he's going to blame you and file for divorce and shun the not straight child.
Glintstone-Jedi t1_iyf46nz wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in Help I (18 M) accidentally called my GF (23 F) “mommy “ in front of her family. by [deleted]
BDSM is a wide range and your labels are up to you, but if she's sending you to the room so she can handle her family without you she's absolutely a little bit your domme lol.