He can’t really walk at all. He’s too disabled to move all the way across the Country to the most expensive place to live in the US as well. I may have to make that decision soon on moving back. Thanks for your comments

Yes they have offered that in the home, it’s 1800 dollars extra a month which is included in the price of the facility, but that service still doesn’t offer help with med taking, I’m looking into memory care services and then they’ll help him. Sister is the only one “care-giver” just now realizing she isn’t doing it. We are working with the VA but it will take at least 3 months and they’re going to pay about half of the home care cost. He is going to doctors for all the visits he needs. she just misses his appts all the time because she won’t take him most of the time. I think I need to move back :(

I think I need to. It’s hard finally having the career of my dreams in the city I dreamed of being in. I got here a year ago and that would be ideal, just really hard to deal with. and if I move home, I’m not sure how to start over

She’s currently the only one helping him so I do t want to do that