Real people in porn are still not on dating apps. And people who post on dating apps don’t want you masurbating to them. That is still disgusting if you think of all social medias like that. A dating app is a dating app. Weirdos can turn anything into porn and sexualize anything. Doesn’t make it right.

Ew, so you’re just a creep? I can see someone sexy on instagram without getting horny?

I don’t think that this is an action you can do without malicious intent. You just try to find different ways of saying you did without admitting it. You’re selfish and did not care about her at all when downloading that app. And you know this. You obviously don’t know her worth and it’s really pathetic to say you do. If you did you would have never downloaded tinder. Tinder is not porn. Nobody on the planet thinks that way. You can’t somehow come to your senses AFTER making a decision (NOT A MISTAKE) and realize her worth. You should have known it when you started dating.

Good, she deserves someone who sees her worth. Not a shitty boyfriend who doesn’t care about her. Leave the girl alone and grow up. Blunt but truthful.