While things will very likely change for him as time progresses it's not wise to bank on that happening. If it doesn't your going to resent him and you'll be the ah for that. If you want to continue and see how things go there's nothing wrong with that. Be realistic tho in understanding his ideas may not change as much as you want. I think I'd be most curious to know how much he's willing to be flexible on for his partners sake.

You need to leave this man op. Don't do couples counseling. Do counseling for yourself.

Is she still kissing him tho? Cause it sounds like it possibly? And that would be a red flag for me .

Its not worth it unless you can get on board. Even tho it probably won't happen resenting his dreams or goals won't make a happy relationship. You both will be happier with partners who share closer ideas of the future that they both can feel good working towards. Its never gonna be easier to have a clean break as it's gonna be at this point. The longer it goes the harder it's gonna be to leave but the issue will stay the same.

What the heck is a situationship? And why is she kissing him?