DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE
DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gebve wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in I feel like I (F 35) was manipulated by this man (M 47) for over a year, and now I’m his back up plan by [deleted]
Well that's my point - they'll be off again eventually. And he'll come back to you when that happens if you let him
I wouldn't though as clearly he's not worth your time
DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gdpd4 wrote
Reply to I feel like I (F 35) was manipulated by this man (M 47) for over a year, and now I’m his back up plan by [deleted]
You'd be assuming right I'd say. Prepare to be love bombed when that inevitably falls through and he's suddenly lonely again
DM-YOUR-CLEAVAGE t1_j6gf07v wrote
Reply to comment by [deleted] in I feel like I (F 35) was manipulated by this man (M 47) for over a year, and now I’m his back up plan by [deleted]
Of course! Don't fall into the sunk cost mindset- you've already found more energy won't fix it. I'd just cut your losses and find someone actually worthy of your time and attention