I adopted a feral who had kittens way too young. She was with her kittens at the rescuers home until they were fully weaned and then some. When we got her, she spent 3 months in the basement, only coming out at night to eat.
When she did decide to live upstairs, she chose my daughters room and spent most of her time there.
She was skittish with me for the first year. It took 3 years for her to warm to my husband. It was 4 years before opening a door or drawer near her wouldn’t flip her out. She didn’t like to be held, she didn’t like to sit on laps.
We had another sweet, goofball cat that she never fully trusted but they would sleep together sometimes. After he died, after about 7 years of her living with us, which made her 8, she slowly started changing. She likes to be held now, she likes sitting on laps, and at night, she will snuggle with us.
I second checking with a vet, but sometimes a cat just needs space and time to adjust.
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Reply to LPT Request: My cat, who has been living with my family for 1 year, keeps ignoring us. She won't let us get close to her and will run away whenever someone gets close to her. by MeeLegend3009
I adopted a feral who had kittens way too young. She was with her kittens at the rescuers home until they were fully weaned and then some. When we got her, she spent 3 months in the basement, only coming out at night to eat.
When she did decide to live upstairs, she chose my daughters room and spent most of her time there.
She was skittish with me for the first year. It took 3 years for her to warm to my husband. It was 4 years before opening a door or drawer near her wouldn’t flip her out. She didn’t like to be held, she didn’t like to sit on laps.
We had another sweet, goofball cat that she never fully trusted but they would sleep together sometimes. After he died, after about 7 years of her living with us, which made her 8, she slowly started changing. She likes to be held now, she likes sitting on laps, and at night, she will snuggle with us.
I second checking with a vet, but sometimes a cat just needs space and time to adjust.