Cool-Reindeer-6145 t1_j6nd3ry wrote on January 31, 2023 at 3:44 PM

Reply to comment by ThrowRAexhuasted in I (F27) am drowning and overwhelmed. Fiancé (M28) does not care and ignores me. by ThrowRAexhuasted

Well then you’re down to option 3. He doesn’t sound like a very good partner.

Cool-Reindeer-6145 t1_j6n8nk3 wrote on January 31, 2023 at 3:16 PM

Reply to I (F27) am drowning and overwhelmed. Fiancé (M28) does not care and ignores me. by ThrowRAexhuasted

I’m sorry you’re going through this. It’s ultimatum time. If he can’t get his shit together and support his family you need to leave his ass. Ask grandma for help.

Give him a deadline. Tell him that on march 1, 1 of 3 things will happen. Either

baby will be in daycare, paid for by him, or
he will be in management so you can step back and focus on caring for your children and caring for yourself, Or
you’re gone with the kid and he can have equal custody, which he’s going ti have to figure out how to manage with his job.

Cool-Reindeer-6145 t1_j6mk8xe wrote on January 31, 2023 at 11:52 AM

Reply to My (22M) girlfriend (21F) keeps hanging up on me during arguments by ThrowRA_Zeugg

Next time you’re having a disagreement, tell her that you’re uncomfortable with how you are treated over video and that you’d be happy to discuss in person, then change the subject.