Lol ain't this the truth. One thing I have always loved about small new England cities though is that the outdoors is always close. It's something I'll always enjoy about the area. Something like NYC? There's parks. but it's not like the forest.

Being a decent human and not murdering people is also a possible outcome... To live in fear of making any mistakes-- which is part of the human experience to do-- for fear of being murdered is no way to live.

It seems you live a very privileged life if this is how you think, and I implore you to instead of blaming victims of such heinous crimes to instead imagine if that was you, your friends, your father, your brother, your lover. Imagine yourself, at 24 years old, still learning, still growing, still navigating life, still trying to understand emotions and in one little burst of anger you impulsively throw a punch-- only for your whole entire life so far to be taken away, as well as prevent the rest of your life to happen. And suddenly you have somebody trying to decide what color urn you should be in or what to do with your ashes because you were way too young to even consider a will or aftercare with your remains.

I hope considering that, perhaps youd be able to humble yourself a bit more. You're so disproportionately viewing this it feels like you're talking about him as if you're the one who murdered him!! Have you no heart?

This isn't about you, it doesn't matter if you do or dont (and you already said you punched people before so LOL clearly you don't). I think maybe that's the problem with your comments... you're trying to revolve this around you.... but honey, it's not about you. It's about the victim and his loved ones, about the people who fear for their safety. The deceased and the vulnerable. Show some respect.

good bye and be well.

Can you explain what your comment means? I'm not quite understanding. I'm autistic so can you say it a little bit clearer?

Edit: actually, nevermind, I dont care

How should I do better? I've neither punched somebody nor killed somebody, praytell how I should improve my nonviolent empathetic ways 😂

Thats not what I said, lol. I said he did not deserved to be murdered for his mistake. A night in jail for assault? sure. Gunned down the way he did? No. being murdered for throwing a punch is not "taking responsibility" for what he did

But wow,,,,,

Mrs. Pouliot's cried through tears, "Why did they have to take him?"

Imagine the response "Welp, he threw a punch. Shouldn't have thrown a punch".

Ffs 🥴🥴🥴🥴 And I'll gladly stay in the wrong place then, I stand by what I said, keep tryin tho

How about we don't victim blame, thanks. I cant even fathom you saying this to the victims family and loved ones, what the actual fuck.

You can attempt to argue with me until you're blue in the face but I stand by what I said; we don't deserve to be brutally murdered for making a stupid mistake as our choice. We. Need. To. Do. Better.

I understand what you're saying, but i disagree with your sentiments. good for you for not being an alcoholic, but alcoholics are humans with struggles too, and people should not be murdered over a stupid mistake or because they're struggling with addiction, and whether alpha male alpha female alpha nonbinary it doesnt matter, humans, alcoholics, sober, whatever the hell--- in general, need to do better.

Hi, I don't appreciate this reply. Somebody died-- was brutally murdered-- and your concern is poking fun at politics and insults utilizing genitalia. This is not cute or funny. Please go away, you're part of the problem

I actually saw the video footage of the incident as it happened posted on r/someofyoumaydie the other day

Dude threw a punch, and in return other dude loaded a full clip point blank range in lightning quick reflexes as if he was just WAITING for an opportunity to shoot somebody. It was so unnecessarily violent I cant even beleive what I was watching.

unreal, this was so brutal. Rest in peace to the gentleman who has been murdered, and I hope justice gets served as best it can; we cannot take a life back.

I just closed on a home Friday morning, day before this happened, my new place is a mile and a half from that bar. This could have been me, or my friends, my God, how scary that somebody so violent can just live among the population unhinged and be about to erupt any moment. Sure throwing a punch ain't classy either but dude doesnt deserved to be murdered for it. I'm scared

NOOOOO OMAR AND FRIENDS :( I loved that place. Shit. I'm so sad. that food was scrumptious

1300 or below is gonna be hard. I'd recommend checking out some of the affordable housing programs but just know it can be a while on their waitlists.

I'd recommend giving a follow to Jewel music venue's social media as well as the SNHU arena, there are shows that go on there on occasion. As well as in Nashua there is a new venue being built called the center for the arts. For restaurants it depends on what cuisine you're looking for! theres lots of good spots in Manchester esp downtown, my fave is the indian place called taj india. theres also mi jaliscos which is Mexican. also a middle eastern /Mediterranean spot called Matbah, I havent been there in a while so I hope they're still around. Firefly bistro is also nice for a classier meal. Chez Vachon is a great breakfast spot, best poutine I ever had 👌 Theres many many others but those are my faves that jump to mind.

Oh, Boston has so many museums and things to do. The museum of science is my fave but also museum of fine arts is good too. The aquarium is very fun as well. There are also a TON of historical spots, I highly recommend doing the freedom trail or duck tours at some point, those are probably the most touristy you can get. Cambridge has a few clubs that I'm aware of for nightlife although the ones I go to are goth night so maybe not your thing. Downtown crossing and the boston common are fun areas just to walk around at, same with the wharfs near the aquarium. The restaurants in boston are so endless I couldn't even start. But one of my fave places is called Yvonne's, it's a little mor upscale and a speakeasy styled spot, tapas style. Boston has some shows as well, big and small. Check out venues like the house of blues, the Sinclair, the middle east, and for the massive shows TD garden, sometimes even huge artists will play at Fenway park. and also Boston has a good selection of theatre and orchestra. Honestly boston is my home away from home. love it there

Also. at some point I recommend you take a trip to portsmouth, nh. It's such a lovely city with lots of fun spots too, a lot of local stores and eateries, and right on the ocean.

The housing market in New england is some of the most expensive out there so I dont blame you!! I lucked out with the condo I snagged.

What kind of tips are you looking for? I can see if I can think of a few others. But depends on what you're interested in :]

I live near the border right near tyngsboro and love it here! And my family lived on the west side and I love it there too, I'm actually going to be moving to just south of the west side soon :)

Hey hey, welcome! There are some sketchy areas in Manch like any city but overall New Hampshire is a very safe state to live in, compared to the national average Manchester is safer than most cities. And some of the streets it depends on which part youre on, I used to date a person who was on Laurel and around where they lived on the street was ok but if you drove further up it was a little sketch.

Cost of living is high, I'd imagine higher than Kansas. but personally I found a pretty good deal when I was renting, i'm currently living in Nashua myself and about to move to Manch, I am paying around 1350 a month for rent for a 1bdrm deluxe, and will be paying approximately the same when I move for mortgage&taxes for a 2bdrm condo.

As far as activities to do, depends what you like. I personally love to go out dancing and clubbing, there is a goth night called resurrection I'm planning to attend soon. But usually for the best nightlife I go down to Boston. Which is a great thing too about this area is you're not far from Boston. I also love outdoors so I like to walk trails at massabesic lake or cedar swamp. And sometimes on a nice day I like to go to the airport in Manch and grab a coloring book or something and sit and watch the planes fly by. There are other fun spots and lots of good restaurants like one of those paint bars, boards and brews (bar that you can play tabletop games at), there is the mall of new new Hampshire. theres so much to do! I hope you love it here.

I actually like the west side! and Nashua!