Clean-Independent129

Clean-Independent129 t1_jebb0c8 wrote

Car=people surrounded by safety equipment and steel/aluminum/car structure material and able to injure/maim/kill humans even at low speeds

Pedestrian=people exposed to the elements, vulnerable to injury/maiming/death from cars/trucks/busses even at low speeds

Sure, traffic should flow and be predictable, but cooling your heels in your comfy car for a few seconds is not a great tragedy. I'd rather people in cars defer to pedestrians whenever possible.

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Clean-Independent129 t1_jadejrx wrote

This peach blossom across the street from me has me all swoony, but Church Hill has a nice variety of magnolia, cherry and others. Lewis Ginter is always safe bet, I'm looking forward to finding more and more. Reminder everyone, all those trees looking fluffier than a week or two ago are about to release the great pollening so anti-histamine up.

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Clean-Independent129 t1_j89uwr9 wrote

Hi, I am guessing that you are young and real stretch, white? You may not mean it, but calling a place hood is using language that has been used as a racist dogwhistle. You can look at crime reports to see the reported crimes in a neighborhood to start. But most importantly, especially as you live nearby, you can visit neighborhoods and see if you feel like it would be a place that you would enjoy living in. The internet can take you far, but visiting on the weekend, on a weekday evening, maybe having lunch or coffee in a place can take you far. Look at zillow or apartments.com or something to gauge prices/amenities of places you can afford/meet your needs. See if it works for you transportation-wise. And then get out there.

There is so much information out there and in here (the search bar). Talk to people you know and ask if they like where they live. I would like living near too many rowdy bars wouldn't feel safe to me, but then someone else would consider that convenient. I like having sidewalks and some street life, others are uncomfortable with that. It comes down to you. And safe, even that is misleading. Plenty of neighborhoods have lots of property crimes (even my old golf club community in the exurbs, people wouldn't lock their cars and leave things like guns, laptops and backpacks in their cars and bored teenagers would help themselves). I don't feel safe when people open carry at the gas pump, but to others that is just the way they roll.

I'm not trying to sound sanctimonious, but I live in a very safe neighborhood where I know my neighborhoods but it may not appear so to someone else who drives through or relies on the opinions of outsiders. Finding a neighborhood that feels like you want to be a part of it is part of the fun of being young and not too settled yet. Explore! Good luck. Having a solid roommate/brother can go a long way towards increasing your sense of personal safety.

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Clean-Independent129 t1_j5g091o wrote

So many of us are allergic to dust/mold and being indoors with our houses closed up concentrates all that. I highly recommend getting on your preferred antihistamine (they often take a few days to do their job) and using Sudafed (from behind the pharmacy counter) to get through the acute congestion for a day or two. My go to is Allegra/fexofenadine, Zyrtec is kind of weird-inducing for me.

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Clean-Independent129 t1_j1uq4q1 wrote

I think everyone should take Logic. Of course, my professor was an amazing teacher who had all of his logical proofs prove that Ronald Reagan was a cannibal. Prepared us to both detect the illogical, but also to remember that even logic can lead you in a direction that might not exactly be true.

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