Chemical-Hawk3835
Chemical-Hawk3835 t1_isxvog5 wrote
Reply to comment by KautiousNupe55 in TIFU by opting out of having a shower with my girl who’s on her 🩸… by Miser-Mike
I did not say that he said that to her at the begining. I agree, him saying "nah" should be enough. If she was feeling insecure she should have asked questions instead of getting butt hurt. But he admitted his true thoughts to us with the comment I quoted. And he does need to do a lot of maturing, just like she does. Both are wrong, but only he posted. So I only commented about his issue. Your comment that "You can try and womansplain a period (only woman understand it)" assumes I am a woman. And also infers that women don't understand things that need to be mansplained. Interesting and telling. And you point at others for cognitive dissonance and how they are exhausting 🤣
Chemical-Hawk3835 t1_iswxeuy wrote
Reply to comment by Sayuri_olg in Tifu by giving my 70 yr. old teacher a book by Sayuri_olg
Can you give an example of an annotation you are particularly concerned with?
Chemical-Hawk3835 t1_iswvazd wrote
Reply to comment by KautiousNupe55 in TIFU by opting out of having a shower with my girl who’s on her 🩸… by Miser-Mike
Him saying that he "just wanted to give her her space to sort out womanly shit" is essentially saying he is clueless and uncomfortable (which is partially fine), but he is also saying he doesn't want to learn more or do better, or just have a supportive conversation about how some physiological functions make him uncomfortable (which is where it crisses over to not fine). That's where the "less than" idea comes from. "Womanly shit" is beneath him.
Chemical-Hawk3835 t1_itxvisa wrote
Reply to comment by Sayuri_olg in Tifu by giving my 70 yr. old teacher a book by Sayuri_olg
If I were your teacher I'd chuckle at that. Is it embarrassing? Probably for many people it would be. But sex is a natural part of life. And part that should be embraced, not surrounded by shame. You were open and authetic, I think your teacher will appreciate that Hopefully you look back at this fondly later in life.